Step By Step
Take it one day at a time. Both you and your spouse should be tested for AIDS/HIVS and STD’s before you resume your intimate activities without protection. Think about what boundaries you need in your marriage in order to stay in the marriage.
Contact an attorney and get these written in a postnuptial agreement. Your children need to know that you are going to be okay. You can’t hide the fact that you are going through a cheating spouse trauma. Be honest with your children, but don’t weigh them down with details about how your spouse cheated on you. Don’t make promises that you can’t keep.
